2017 Sojourn Retreat

identity-sojourn

February 3 @ 7 pm – February 4 @ 3 pm

Ramada Plaza Minneapolis » 1330 Industrial Blvd. N.E., Mpls., MN 55413

Phone: 612.331.1900 » http://www.ramadaplazampls.com


Identity. Such a hard subject. We think we’ve got it all figured out and then life changes, things shift and we start to doubt. We get 3000 messages a day that tell us we aren’t enough- the way we look, the things we have, our actions, our work, our family.

Sometimes the wounds from our past keep us from believing we are enough in Christ. Sometimes the present circumstances make it hard to believe that we have worth. Sometimes fear of the future creates anxiety and doubts about the person God says we are.

Everyone struggles with identity at some point in their life. Let’s be brave and tackle this subject together. It won’t be easy for me, either. But I promise it will be worth it.

NEW: College student, military or High School junior/senior: Your retreat cost is on us!

COST FOR RETREAT:

$65 includes retreat materials, 1 appetizer type late snack, 2 meals and 3 sessions                   ($25 for Friday night only/$50 for Saturday only)

We have a “pay what you can” philosophy. It costs us at least $65 a person to put on the retreat so we ask that you pay that if you can. If you need to pay less, that is fine. No questions asked. If you can pay more, please do so!

We believe in the end it will cover what we need.

COST FOR HOTEL ROOM (OPTIONAL): 

$95(without tax) for hotel room (1-4 people)

SPEAKER:  Dienna Goscha (and a few friends telling their stories)

MUSICIAN:  Anna Miller

HOW TO REGISTER AND PAY:

Fill out the form below. Then pay one of three ways:

1.Paying online here

(Make sure you put “Sojourn Retreat” beside the “Other donation”)

2. Bringing  a check or cash to Sojourn

3. Mailing a check to

Prairie Oak Community Church
attn. Sojourn retreat
PO Box 157
Andover, MN 55304.

DEADLINE JANUARY 20- Late registrations will be taken IF room and materials are available  but will be charged a $10 late fee.

REGISTER FOR HOTEL:

If you would like to stay at the hotel, call the hotel directly.

        DEADLINE for hotel special rate JANUARY 20. Reservations after that point are subject to availability.

(Sojourn is not responsible for room assignments or reservations.)

 SCHEDULE:

(Subject to change)

Friday

4:00 Hotel room registration

5:00-6:45 pm Check in for retreat

6:45 pm  Doors open

7:00-9:00  Session One

9:00- Midnight    Snack/Free Time in meeting room- bring games/cards/crafts

Saturday

8:00-8:45 am  Breakfast

9:15 am-11:15 am  Session Two

11:15 am- 12:15  Check Out/Free Time

12:15-1:15  Lunch

1:15-3:00  Session Three

QUESTIONS?

dienna.goscha@gmail.com

Fill out the registration form below. Be sure to submit when finished.

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When Gratitude Opens Our Eyes

It’s been 18 years ago today.

That day that we were able to meet our daughter, Victoria Rose, even though her soul had already flown to heaven.

The truth is I don’t think about her everyday. Not even every week. On the other hand there are times when the grief feels almost fresh and I surprise myself by breaking down crying at unexpected moments. Like when my son got married and my daughter-in-law’s mom helped her into their wedding dress and I realized I’d never get to do that with my daughter. Or that November when I recognized that she would have been going to get her driver’s license that month. Or years ago when I would wander through the little girl dress section at Target around Easter and pick out the dress I would have put her in.

The thing about stillbirth is you don’t have a lot of memories. The ones you have are precious- feeling the baby move inside you, seeing the baby on the ultrasound, picking out all the things, the anticipation. Instead of being left with lots of memories and missing those things attached to the memories, you are left with “what if.”

What if she had lived? What would our life have been like with three boys and then a girl? What would she have been like?

This is what I think: She would have had long blonde hair. I think she would have been a princess but not in the pink and frilly dress type. No, she had three older brothers who weren’t really into babying anyone. So I think she would have been the princess superhero. She would have fought evil along side of those superheroes growing up. She would have tried to keep those three in line and I’d like to think that she might have succeeded a bit. She would have been strong- you have to with three older brothers. I’d like to think that she would have been compassionate and loving and adventurous. It would have been fun watching her blossom into whatever God made her to be.

This year it seems harder. That date. Nov. 16. Perhaps it is because we would have been about done with the growing up years. She would have been thinking about prom and graduation and college and dreaming of her life out in the world. We would have been getting ready to launch her praying with everything we had that she was ready. And so a bit more sadness as I realize that the little girl I mourn would not be so little anymore but would have been a young woman.

In Sojourn, a community women’s Bible study I lead, we’ve been talking about gratitude. And today the topic is “Gratitude Opens Our Eyes.” I believe that with all my heart. It opens our eyes to see God. I’ve experienced that over and over again.

Today let me count the gifts. Let me name the gifts with a heart full of gratitude for all Victoria’s life brought me:

  1. I learned how to have compassion at a deeper level especially for those experiencing loss.
  2. I was able to hold my daughter.
  3. God’s peace was so evident in the room that day.
  4. God’s peace followed us in the days after- literally feeling Him hold me at night as I wept.
  5. I have a daughter.
  6. Her life inspired others to turn to God. There are many stories surrounding that.
  7. Unfolding her little ear that was folded over.
  8. Her tiny perfect fingernails. Her tiny perfect fingers.
  9. I am filled with love when I think of her. . . not bitterness.
  10. Kind nurses and doctors that day.
  11. Two ornaments that hang on my Christmas tree made by women who understood loss.
  12. Her tiny perfect mouth.
  13. Those who cried with us, held us, brought us food, sent us cards. Who were present with us.
  14. The picture of my boys at church praying for us with their heads on each other’s shoulders while we were at the hospital. So glad someone took it and gave it to me. Precious.
  15. The reminder that I’m a sojourner here on earth. This isn’t forever.

As it happens over and over- that as I’ve listed these grateful things, a miracle occurs.

I see God.

I feel joy and love.

Life is a gift. Even if it only lasts a moment.

Seasons of the Soul – 2016 Retreat

seasonsof the soul

HOTEL INFORMATION:

Ramada Plaza Minneapolis » 1330 Industrial Blvd. N.E., Mpls., MN 55413

Phone: 612.331.1900 » http://www.ramadaplazampls.com


Identify as members of Sojourn.

COST FOR RETREAT:

$60 includes retreat materials, 1 appetizer type late snack, 2 meals and 3 sessions                   ($20 for Friday night only/$45 for Saturday only)

We have a “pay what you can” philosophy. It costs us at least $60 a person to put on the retreat so we ask that you pay that if you can. If you need to pay less, that is fine. No questions asked. If you can pay more, please do so!

We believe in the end it will cover what we need.

COST FOR HOTEL ROOM (OPTIONAL): 

$92(without tax) for hotel room (1-4 people)

SPEAKER:  Dienna Goscha

MUSICIAN:  Anna Miller

HOW TO REGISTER AND PAY:

Fill out the form below. Then pay one of three ways:

  1. paying online here 

(Make sure you put “Sojourn Retreat” beside the “Other donation”)

2. bringing  a check or cash to Sojourn

3. mailing a check to

Prairie Oak Community Church

attn. Sojourn retreat

PO Box 157

Andover, MN 55304.

DEADLINE JANUARY 15- Late registrations will be taken IF room and materials are available  but will be charged a $10 late fee.

REGISTER FOR HOTEL:

If you would like to stay at the hotel, call the hotel directly.

        DEADLINE for hotel special rate JANUARY 12

(Sojourn is not responsible for room assignments or reservations. If you need someone to room with, we’d be glad to help you find someone.)

 SCHEDULE:

(Subject to change)

Friday

4:00 Hotel room registration

5:00-6:45 pm Check in for retreat- hotel lobby

7:00-9:00  Session One

9:00- Midnight    Snack/Free Time in meeting room- bring games/cards/crafts

Saturday

8:00-8:45 am  Breakfast

9:15 am-11:15 am  Session Two

11:15 am- 12:15  Check Out/Free Time

12:15-1:15  Lunch

1:15-3:00  Session Three

QUESTIONS?

dienna.goscha@gmail.com

 

 

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Sojourn Fall Women’s Retreat Registration

sojourn women’s retreat

you are invited

November 8-9, 2013 @ Ramada Plaza Minneapolis

Friday 7pm-Saturday 3pm

 

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story.

 

everyone has one.

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{speaker} dienna goscha

{special guest speaker} addie zierman

 

cost $55

Includes: retreat materials, 1 snack, 2 meals & 3 sessions.

optional room $89 (+tax)

(up to four people may be in a room-double beds)

Ramada Plaza Minneapolis » 1330 Industrial Blvd. N.E., Mpls., MN 55413

Phone: 612.331.1900 » http://www.ramadaplazampls.com


Identify as members of Sojourn.

 

 questions: dienna.goscha@gmail.com

 

How do I register? Fill out the form below. 

How do I pay? Pay the $55 for the retreat online here, bring a check to Sojourn or send to

 Prairie Oak Community Church,

1657 161st Ave NW,

 Andover, MN 55304.

DEADLINE IS NOVEMBER 1

 

For a room, call the hotel directly.

DEADLINE IS OCT. 26.

God Is Here

Sometimes in the midst of life it is hard to remember. To fathom. That God is here.

Perhaps if we stopped for a moment. Or two. We would see Him at work all around us.

In a sunset. In our child’s smile. In a phone call from a friend. Even in tears of sorrow over a lost loved one.
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Esther. No mention of God. And yet He is there. All over the story. Even when it seems like not really.

Look a little closer. You’ll find Him.
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What is your story? Where have you seen God at work? Where have you seen “God is here?” Write it down. In the comments. In your journal. Somewhere.

Look for Him.

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French Picnic

French Picnic

In the midst of a snowy May 1, we ignored the weather. Grapes, pears, cheese, baguettes. Spring in our hearts.

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Imperfect Faith

(Snapshots Session 5)

Mark 5:21-43

The Sick Woman

12 years. One little girl 12 years old. One woman sick 12 years. Their two stories collide on a road in Galilee.

The young girl sick, near death. Jairus rushes to Jesus asking for help. “My little daughter is at the point of death. Come and lay your hands on her, so that she may be made well and live.”

And so Jesus comes.

While he makes his way along that dusty, dirty road, the crowd crushes in around him. And that woman. . . .the one bleeding for 12 years gathers up every ounce of courage, every moment of desperation and reaches out her hand.

Perhaps believing the superstition that the robe of a great man had power. “If I just touch his clothes, I will be healed.”

She touches the cloak. And in an instant she is made well. Her body is freed from the suffering.

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The suffering.

Physical: a woman bleeding 12 years leaves one anemic, weak, broken.

Social/religious: a Jewish woman bleeding leads her to be an outcast.

Emotional: hopeless. She has spent all she has on doctor after doctor. They don’t know how to fix her so they try potions and odd things boiled in wine and sitting over trenches and hopeless means that lead to just more suffering.

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Jesus stops. He turns. “Who touched my cloak?’

For the disciples this is impossible. So many people. How would you know?

For the woman, this horror filled moment- she tried so hard to be anonymous, to sneak up behind, to not allow him to peer at her face, to just stick out a hand and touch.

For Jesus, he knows. He felt the power go out of him. He wants to see her.

She comes forward. Kneeling. Trembling. Explaining.

“Daughter, you faith has healed you. Go in peace and be freed from your suffering.”

Her imperfect faith. Freed. Not just her body but all her suffering. No longer an outcast. No longer hopeless.

She reached out a hand in imperfect faith and she was given hope.

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Meanwhile, Jairus’ daughter dies. Just like that. But Jesus goes anyway. He reaches out and takes her hand. “Little girl, I say to you, get up!” And she does.

Two stories. One trip.

Jairus coming to Jesus religiously clean. Boldly. In the open. And Jesus moves and gives hope.

The woman coming to Jesus unclean. Quietly. In secret. And Jesus moves and gives hope.

For that is what he came to do:

“to proclaim that captives will be released” and that “the oppressed will be set free”  (Luke 4:18-19)

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Freed when in desperation a hand is held out. Released when an imperfect faith acts.

Imperfect faith.

Coming to him just as we are. Without it all figured out.

Come to him with an imperfect faith.

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Take a moment or two to experience  Addie Zierman’s  “Come Weary”

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